Best Spots for a First Date

1. Movies- This is a good spot for a first date because the movies is relatively inexpensive, very accessible, and does not requite much conversation. If the date is a flop, you won’t be tortured trying to provide talking points. However, if it goes really well it would be easy to stop somewhere to eat to have a real conversation after. Also, after the movie is over it will provide a great talking point. There are many things about a movie to provide a full conversation for the ride home if necessary!
2. Restaurants- Restaurants are a good call because they can provide a romantic atmosphere. Don’t try to impress your date too much on the first time out. Go somewhere that people universally like. For example, a diner would be a good choice because most people can find something they like at a diner. A steakhouse probably wouldn’t be a great idea if you’re not sure about your date’s eating habits. A TGI Fridays type place is a good idea too. Any local, low-key restaurant would work perfectly! Definitely ask your date if that restaurant works with them first. Don’t assume. Make sure they feel like they have a say in where you are going.
3. Sports game- Sports games are a great first date if you agree on the team or are neutral toward the team. Although getting tickets can be expensive, it can also be cheap depending on the team. For example, right now NJ Devils tickets go for about $25 depending on the seats. It would be fun to go see a game with a date, get into the atmosphere, and enjoy the game together even if the team is not on a winning streak. Your date will also think you’re very thoughtful. But make sure they like the team first! It is all about communication. The first date will be more successful if both people agree on the first date spot.
4. Bowling- Bowling is an awesome idea because when trying something new together and having an activity in front of you there is a lot of opportunity for fun, enjoyment and laughs. Bowling is also not too expensive. It can get loud in bowling alleys, but there is also the personal feel of having just the two of you to the lane. Bowling is one of my favorite first date spots. Just make sure not to get overly competitive.
5. Ice skating- If you’re at all balanced or athletic, this could be a fun activity. A lot of people find they enjoy themselves more when they’re doing something active, so this would be a great choice for anyone like that. You can have a conversation while ice skating, but at the same time skating in silence isn’t a bad thing; your mind will be preoccupied. Just make sure, as with any date, that the other person is comfortable with the arrangement.
6. Mini golf- this is also seasonal, and along the same lines at bowling. It is fun to have an activity to do together, and this is also a great group date.
7. Carnival/boardwalk- Although this is seasonal and varies by location, if there is a carnival in town it is a great idea to bring a date to one. It is a fun spot to just walk around, enjoy the atmosphere, get food, and go on rides. The boardwalk is the same scenario. It gives the chance to play games with each other, stroll alongside the beach, enjoy the weather, etc.

Let me know if you have any suggestions for great first dates! And good luck!