Sunday, March 20, 2011

Signs He is Going to End the Relationship

For this blog post, I am taking a look at an article in Cosmopolitan magazine about signs that your boyfriend may be about to split with you.

This article raises a few valid points, such that he'll start overloading at work, keeping conversations neutral, boxing you out physically, stop texting, cutting the PDA. I think there are a couple more signs we could add to this list.

For example, if your boyfriend seems to "forget" to do the nice things he always did for you, if he starts keeping conversations short, forgets to call you back, does not respond to nice actions on your part- that could be a sign that he is going to break it off.

But then again, it could also just be that something is upsetting him that you have done. Get down to the root of the problem! Talk to him about it, but don't nag. If he doesn't want to talk about it, bothering him and bothering him to get to the problem and constantly bringing it up is only going to make things worse. It will only make him want to distance himself more.

Also, do not respond to his distance by clinging. That will cause the same reaction on his part. Try to have a frank conversation, and if that does not respond wait until he is ready to come to his senses. Good luck!

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